He opened a business, set up his own apartment, and enjoyed doing something meaningful with his life. But soon waves of disappointment, pain, and deep grief would come rushing in. His best friend, a strong man, a Marine who had served in Afghanistan and Iraq, took his own life, leaving behind a wife and four children. Called to the scene Brian was devastated. Their friendship had been the source of His strength and joy, while his own family continued to minimize him and reject him.
Alone, with his heart utterly crushed, Brian cried out to God, “If you are really there, please help me.”
Soon after, his father, who had moved to New York City, became ill and had no one to help him. Brian left San Diego to care for him. He put his belongings in storage for safe keeping. While away, his siblings stole them all and sold them for drugs. Brian was left with nothing.
After his father passed, he made his way to Virginia Beach and moved into Magic Hollow. While trying sort out his life and find a way back to California he was walking through the neighborhood one day when he saw a banner outside the Roma Lodge. “Free Dinner For You.” And then the second one, “Every Wednesday at 6pm.” In his heart he was drawn to the idea of a free dinner, so he came back that evening and began to experience the ministry of the Holy Spirit drawing him to Jesus.
At first, because of his concerns about the Covid virus he would not eat at the table, but instead would sit, with a double mask on and then take food home with him. Each night I shared a story from the life of Jesus with everyone, and then asked, “What would happen if you began to believe it?” As the weeks went on Brian continued to join us, but he would arrive in time to hear the message. A few months later, for the first time, he took a plate of food to the table with him, took his mask off and ate together with those he had befriended.
After the message one Wednesday Brian came up to me and asked if we could get together and talk. A couple of days later I took him to lunch, and while eating hamburgers together, he said, “I want to be baptized and I need a Bible.” Of course, I had been getting to know Brian over the months, I had taken him to Starbucks for coffee, learned of his past, but he had never spoken this way before. So, I asked him simply, “Why do you want to be baptized?”
He looked at me and his eyes filled with tears, and the story of his friend’s suicide, and the cry of his heart to God to help him poured out. He told me that at the Gathering, he was hearing the truth, and he believed it. And he wanted to say “Yes” to Jesus through his life and baptism. We bought him a Bible. Since then, the Holy Spirit has been orienting Brian’s soul in all Jesus is and is for him. He is reading his Bible and shares the things God is revealing to him about all Jesus is and is for him with me. The fresh insight is full of life!
On Sunday he told everyone, “God answered the cry of my heart with the message on a sign while I was walking, “Free Dinner for you.” At the Gathering I heard the truth, and I am saying “yes” to Jesus, and I will follow Him for the rest of my life.”
A few moments later, I baptized my friend in the Name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
- Peter Daley
Pastor, New Hope Christian Fellowship.